Seven

The countdown is over; Monkey is now 7 years old. My husband and I often say that he is the cutest boy ever (and we're not biased). He is so sweet, loving, sensitive, kind, generous and many more adjectives like that. As much as these assets are what you want from a human being, sometimes they are a risk for him too. We see that he is brought to tears quickly and often, and that some kids find their strength by pushing his buttons (including his sister). I would like to find tools for him that capitalize on the good but also give him strength...his father sometimes wants him to 'fight back'....I know he doesn't' always mean physically but it comes across as 'get a spine kid'. I appreciate this perspective and sometimes go into that space...but for now, I'm looking for the elixir for him that allows him to be authentic to his true nature while also being strong in face of the meanies! Today, we are going to have an awesome day celebrating the 7 year young life of a wonderful child...it will involve playing Lego Batman on xbox 360 with his dad, playing board games he got from his party, dinner at a restaurant of his choice....and many hugs, kisses, and praises from his family. We love our Monkey and we cannot wait to see what this year brings for him!